The guy wants you, but is not willing to sign up for the rest of your life. "I have a two-year-old son and not much help, so I signed up for online dating, to browse, when my son was sleeping at night." She says it turns out there are a lot of sweet, cool guys online, looking to date, but nothing serious."This is a great bet for a new-to-the-dating-scene single mom, because it gives you a chance to practice your dating skills and interview guys.He lived in a pretty cool area with no shortage of restaurants, bars, cafes, eclectic shop, and views of the New York City skyline. It was nice to have a break from the 24/7 agenda of single motherhood.I was wined and dined along cobblestone sidewalks, and my guy went to Starbucks in the morning for lattes.I approached the topic with him, because I thought he might be into me that way, but he wasn't. Everyone has certain requirements in a relationship that aren't negotiable.This isn't about your desire to be with some dude who's over six feet tall.
I was a sex-deprived single mom, so this seemed fine to me. But then I realized I was only sleeping with him and not going on dates—and well, falling in love. One month later, my heart was, very invested and he called to say he'd slept with his ex (WTF) the night before, right after seeing me," says Rachel Sarah, author of Her advice to single moms ready to start dating: Figure out your deal-breakers and stick to them."Letting your kids get attached to a guy when you're just not ready to commit causes your kids needless confusion and heartache.And you have to protect your heart too."__Don't diss your kid's dad.__Dating as a single mom likely means your ex is dating as a single dad.Go out for a nice dinner, glass of wine, and if that's all it turns out to be, cool!There's plenty more guys looking just to date.
Chrissy, the author, with her single mom friends, Jenn and Nat.