Eve: A selfie from a man implicitly begs you for one back, because men don't take as many selfies as women/feminine-presenting people, so it's like, Sam: Exactly.
If you're a dude who never posts selfies to your Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat story, or [shudder] Facebook, why are you sending me this?
Sam: If you only communicate via Snapchat, you are sus.
I don't hit up my casual acquaintances to talk about politics at a.m.
Eve: Oh, of course, late at night your guard is down.
Sam: It's not like they're saying, "Hey, I want to solicit some communication from you." I also think that specifically DMs, messages, and especially like random-ass selfies make it all the more sus.
Late at night, that's when you're about intimate things.
Eve: I mean, when I slide into a single dude's DMs who follows me, chances are I'm trying to suss out if I could be attracted to them.